Prior to the American Revolution,
most women were bound by the legal and moral codes of their respective communities. Life was not easy for women. From
the perspective of society, women
were assumed to be helpless because they were like children who could not
provide the basic necessities for
themselves, but had to rely on men for food, shelter, and clothing. But they were also helpless, it was thought,
because they were inferior. They could not take care of themselves because they were less rational, capable, and competent
than men. Not only were women treated
as helpless inferiors, they were also expected to speak of themselves in these
terms.1 Women in many of the colonies could not attend
public schools, were often pregnant on their wedding days and received little protection from domestic violence.2 Women were often heavily dependent upon the companionship of their
sisters and other female relatives.
Siblings often spent
countless hours spinning, preparing food, making soap and working in the field.
Females also assisted each other in
the birthing and raising of children.3
Often the major
decision in a woman’s life was the choice of a mate. Although 18th century women had some say in the selection of a spouse, parents still
played a significant role in the
decision and their consent was required.4 Colonial era women were expected to obey their husbands, rear the children, cook
and prepare meals, make and launder clothes and undertake minor
household repairs.5 A married woman was seen as
subordinate to her husband. Basic to the marriage contract was the notion
that the man had the power to make the important decisions for the family unit, but he also had the
responsibility to ensure its well- being by providing the essentials - food, clothing, and housing.6 Colonial era women were
expected to obey their husbands, rear
the children, cook and prepare meals, make and launder clothes and undertake minor household repairs.7 Under the eyes of the law, a
married woman could not vote, collect
wages, make contracts, testify in court, serve as a juror, buy or sell property
nor execute a will on her own. As eighteenth century legal scholar Sir
William Blackstone surmised: "By marriage, the
husband and wife are one person in law: that is, the very being or legal existence of the woman is suspended
during the marriage, or at least is incorporated and consolidated into that of the husband: under whose wing,
protection, and cover she performs every thing; and is
therefore called in our law-French a feme-covert;
is said to be covert-baron, or under the protection and influence of her husband,
her baron, or lord.
. .[Though] our law in general considers man and
wife as one person, yet there are some
instances in which she is . . . considered; as inferior to him, and acting
by his compulsion. And
therefore all deeds executed, and acts done, by her . . . are void, or at least voidable; except it be a fine, or
the like matter of record, in which case she must be solely and secretly examined, to learn if
her act be voluntary. She cannot by will
devise lands to her husband,
unless under special circumstances; for at the time of making it she is supposed to be under his coercion.
And in some felonies, and other inferior crimes, committed by her, though constraint of her
husband, the law excuses her: but this extends not to treason or murder.8
Historical
evidence suggests married colonial women, appeared to accept their subordinate position within the
family. Rather than complaining or contemplating the unfairness of their situation, married women knew that their
role was to accept their lot in life and do their duty. As loyalist Dothe Stone recalled
“I was obliged and did affect cheerfulness in my behavior. . . I answered with a smile when my heart was ready to break. . . [I]
must submit when it comes to open things.”9
However, not all women were subject to the strict rigors of society. An unmarried woman was considered a feme sole. A feme
sole could sign contracts, own a business,
control her own wages, buy and/or sell property, and distribute personal
property and chattel in her will. A feme sole could also sue or be sued in
her own name in a court of law. Some feme
sole loyalist women were able to
establish employment as midwives, newspaper owners, successful seamstresses, tavern keepers, and shopkeepers. Such
positions enabled women to work within
the accepted sphere of gendered society (and/or sometimes in conjunction with
family members, husbands, or business
partners) and earn incomes that placed them in the middling ranks. For example, a Mrs. Cumming of
Charlestown, South Carolina was a successful loyalist midwife who petitioned the British government for financial
assistance following the loss of her
business.10 A Mrs.
Griffiths, a Connecticut milliner, supported herself and her son prior to the war.11 Unfortunately, the status of feme sole afforded women the most
freedom but was publicly and socially
discouraged, since women were viewed as "unproductive" if they were
not wedded and having babies.12
One limited
way women established their rights during marriage and controlled their own businesses was to become feme sole traders. Most often, married
women needed to obtain their husband's
permission to do this. This status meant that married women could conduct business and were responsible for their
own actions. If the women were sued, it would not affect their husbands' estates. Married women could even devise the
property acquired through their own
endeavors. Deserted women and sailors' wives could petition their colonial
legislatures to acquire such status.
Although not stated, it is easy to see that the legislatures granting such
status acted in an effort to keep
women and their dependent children off poor relief. Thus it was motivated by economic, rather than liberal,
concerns. War would cause many women to support themselves because their husbands had died or were crippled as
a result of their service. During most wars,
women remained at home to
run farms, plantations, and their families’ businesses until the men returned from battle.
Women in the
eighteenth century also acted independently as deputy husbands, a term coined by Laurel Thatcher Ulrich. As
a deputy husband, the wife could take
over her husband’s job or
business in his absence. This usually occurred in family businesses such as
stores, taverns, mills, and the
like. Women were familiar with the business and kept it running smoothly while their husbands were incapacitated or
away. This role was common and women coped adequately
with their new positions. The role of deputy husband allowed married women to purchase supplies, pay bills, bank, and
perform all other aspects of running their businesses. During times of war, women ran their
plantations, businesses, farms, families, and managed the servants, while their husbands served in
the military. Such was the case during the American Revolution and women, whether Tory or Whig, did whatever was
necessary to keep the home front running.
Many colonial
women, whether Loyalist or Patriot, were forced during the Revolution to act in ways inconsistent with their
subordinate status within patriarchal households and to take their first tentative steps into the traditionally
male-dominated worlds of politics and war fare. Loyalist
women were active participants in the Revolution. They took their first steps
into the political realm by
petitioning and writing pamphlets. In one
such piece of literature, A Dialogue Between a Southern Delegate and
His Spouse, a loyalist woman berated her husband, a delegate to the First Continental Congress, and warned of the
dire con sequences of the Congress's
actions:
To your mighty
Congress, your members were sent To
lay our complaints before Parliament,
Usurpation reared its head from that fatal Hour
You resolved, you enacted like a Sovereign Power.
Your non-imports,
and Exports are full fraught with Ruin,
Of thousands and thousands the utter undoing,
If Philadelphia
or New York proposed some wise Plan
From that moment on you branded the
man ...
Instead of
imploring their Justice or Pity, You
treat Parliament like a Pack of Banditti.
Instead of
Addresses fram'd on Truth or on Reason,
You breathe nothing but insult, rebellion and
Treason. In all the Records of the most slavish Nation,
You'll not find
an instance of such usurpation, If
spirits infernal for dire vengeance design'd,
Had been named Delegates to afflict humankind, And in Grand Continental
Congress had resolved, Let the bonds
of social bliss be henceforth dissolved.
Oh! My Country! Remember that a woman unknown
Cry'd aloud like Cassandra in Oracular Tone,
Repent! Or you are forever, forever undone.13
Loyalist
women even played a military role in the Revolution. Ann Novil, a Pennsylvania loyalist, acted as a guide
during the 1777 Burgoyne expedition from Canada. Another woman, Frances Child, helped British and loyalist prisoners
being held in southern New York escape,
while Hannah Tomlinson “aided
and assisted upwards of 100 Prisoners of War in making their escape into the British lines.”14 Most loyalist
women, however, stayed within their communities
behind enemy lines, where they were a valuable military asset of the British
and a thorn in the side
of the Patriots. Women often made better spies than men since their actions
were less carefully scrutinized.
Because they did not have to serve in the militia or sign oaths, women found it easier to escape being
branded as dissidents.
As loyalist men fled to the safety of
British lines, there was a theoretical belief held by men regarding the
treatment of Tory women and children as innocent bystanders. As Captain Alexander McDonald opined “surely the people [the
Patriots] has not got so barberously mad as
to Mollest or hurt a poor
innocent woman and still more Innocent poor Children.”15 From the
male loyalist perspective, their wives were mere appendages with no independent
wills or political roles of their
own. Likewise, many male loyalists assumed, under the theories of feme sole trader and
deputy husbands, that if their spouses were left behind, personal and real property would be carefully
protected from seizure or destruction.
Unfortunately,
both views were rejected by the enemy. Patriot committees and colonial governments concluded that
unless there was evidence to the contrary, the families of fleeing male loyalists shared in the
guilt. From the patriot perspective, women could not act independently from the men in their lives. The political decisions of the men also incriminated the women. By joining the
enemy and participating in the often vicious raids on frontier communities, the men had tainted not only themselves
but also their families. The Patriots felt
justified in striking back and punishing those raiding their frontiers and
participating in treason. The men,
however, were in Canada, beyond the Patriots' reach. Loyalist women left behind were seen as vipers living in their
midst. Thus, it was the women and their
families who bore the brunt of the
Patriots' rage.
Women who had
either participated in the war themselves or were married to men who had were subjected to various forms of
punishment, the most common and devastating being the confiscation of their property. Looting and destruct of
loyalist property were also conventional.
Likewise, many women also faced imprisonment and violence at the hand of local mobs.
Loyalist Sarah
Mcginnis of New York enjoyed a close relationship with neighboring Mohawks. At the outbreak of the war she was offered
twelve shillings York currency per day
and a guard of fifteen men if she would try to influence the Mohawk on their
behalf. Instead, she provided
intelligence to British authorities and assisted loyalist refugees with their
flight north. In retaliation, local
patriot officials arrested her son in law and plundered her property. Sarah, her daughter, and her granddaughter watched as the Patriots
sold all of their possessions, “except
what would scantily support them in victuals and clothes,” at public auction.
After this, the women were
imprisoned in a local fort and so badly treated that Sarah's granddaughter
later died. Sarah and her daughter "escaped at night with only what
they could carry on their backs.” Sarah was forced to leave behind a son
“who was out of his senses and bound in chains ... and who some time afterward was burnt alive.”16
In the case of
the loyalist Empy family, Philip, husband and father of eleven children,
was subjected to “many
insults and abuses from
rebels.” When Philip and his three sons
escaped from prison, the local Patriots turned their eyes to his wife
and seven other children. Mrs Empty
and her children were imprisoned and all of their real and personal property
was confiscated. Mrs Empy and her
family were eventually released. But when she returned to her home, she was “beat and abused” by “4 men” who left her on the
road. Although she was rescued by friends and
taken to Schenectady, she later died.17
Elizabeth
Cary Wilstee, a resident of the New Hamphshire grants whose family had been victimized by the Green Mountain boys
in the 1760s, watched helplessly as a Patriot
band ransacked her home in 1776.
In the middle of winter, the
“outlaws” broke into her home and
ordered her and her children to leave for her father's place. Although it was
snowy and cold, she had no choice. “Looking back while
on her way,” she saw the “outlaws moving her furniture and provisions from the house and loading
them into a wagon.” Next
she witnessed them “open her
feather beds and shake the feathers from the ticks out of the windows and put
the ticks and bed clothes into the wagon.”
Finally, she watched them “pry the logs of the sides of the house out at the corners until the roof fell in.” Having finished
with the Wiltsee home, the band moved on to
the homes of other tenants in the neighborhood.18
Shortly after his escape, Daniel
McAlpin’s property was seized and his wife and
family were arrested. Mary
McAlpin described her family’s
treatment at the hands of the rebels in
vivid language.
“From the day her
husband left to the day she was forced from her home the Captain's house was never without parties of the Rebels present.
They lived at their discretion and
sometimes in very large numbers. They destroyed what they could not consume. Shortly after
the capture of the fleeing loyalists a group of armed Rebels with blackened
faces broke into the McAlpin's
dwelling house. They threatened Mary and her children with violence and menace of instant death. They confined them to
the kitchen while they stripped every valuable from the home. A few days after this, by an order of the Albany
Committee, a detachment of Rebel Forces
came and seized upon the remainder of McAlpin's estate both real and personal.”19 Mary
McAlpin and her children were taken to an unheated hut located in Stillwater
and locked inside “without fire, table, chairs or
any other convenience.”20
Hoping that
the hardship would eventually break Mrs. McAlpin and induce her to beg her husband to honorably surrender, the
rebels kept Mary and her children in captivity for several weeks.
Mary McAlpin refused to comply and instead responded her husband “had already established his honour by a
faithful service to his King and country.”21 Enraged,
rebels seized Mary and her oldest daughter and
“carted” both of them through Albany. According to the Reverend Munro, “Mrs. McAlpin was brought down to Albany in
a very scandalous manner so much that
the Americans themselves cried out about it.”22 A second account stated “when Mrs. McAlpin was brought from the
hut to Albany as a prisoner with her daughter . . . they neither of them
had a rag of cloaths to shift themselves.”23
As violence,
imprisonment and looting continued to mount, many loyalist women recognized their situation was
becoming desperate. In a letter to
her husband John, Mary Munro described just how dangerous her
situation was. “For heavens sake,
my dear Mr. Munro, send me some relief by the first safe
hand. Is there no possibility of your sending for us? If there is no method fallen upon we shall perish,
for you can have no idea of our sufferings here; Let me once more intreat you to try every method to save your family; my heart is so full it is ready to break; adieu my Dearest John, may God
Almighty bless pre serve and protect you, that we may live to see each other is the constant prayer
of your affectionate tho' afflicted wife ... P.S. The Childer's kind love to you.”24
With the
threat of financial and physical ruin, many loyalist women petitioned local patriot authorities regarding their
dire situation.25 Ultimately, many loyalist women concluded they and their families would be
safer by withdrawing to British held territory north in Canada or south in New York City. In a second letter, Mary confirmed this
conclusion when she declared “My dear John I hope when
you receive these few lines they may find you in good health. Your Dear Children are all well. As for
myself, I am in a poor state of health and very much distresst. I must leave my house in a very short
time and God knows where I shall get a place to put my head in, for my own relations are my greatest enemies, the mills they have had a long time in their possession - likewise all their
tenants' houses and lands. They have distresst me beyond expression. I have scarcely a mouthful of bread for
myself or children.”26
Despite
popular misconception, loyalist women and their families generally did not gather their belongings and flee into
the night. Instead, many appeared before
local Committees of
Safety and other similar organizations and requested permission to leave the
community to join their husbands. At
first, many committees were reluctant to release loyalist families as they served a useful purpose as hostages.
From the patriot perspective, the continued presence of loyalist families under their careful guard could deter
future attacks, stem the flow of potential
young male recruits into Canada and encourage the release of American prisoners
held by British authorities.27 However, following Burgoyne’s
invasion of 1777, many local committees
recognized that hostages would not prevent British raids and agreed to release
women and their families.
Officials
carefully scrutinized petitions of loyalist women and set forth the terms of their departure. Often the decision to allow
women to leave was prompted by concern about
the financial cost involved in permitting them to stay. As the Albany
County Commissioners for Detecting and Defeating Conspiracies
declared in 1778, “it having appeared to us that those Women are become chargeable to the Districts in which they
severally reside and that they together with their Families are subsisted at public Expence.”28 Thus, patriot officials did not want communities to take on the
burden of caring for indigent loyalist families and were frequently quite willing to grant permission to such
families to leave.
Likewise, as the
war progressed, many states passed laws ordering the expulsion of loyalist families from
their territories. As Burgoyne advanced south into New York, the Vermont Council of Safety became
alarmed at the military roles loyalist women were assuming. In response, it declared “all such persons as have joined or may hereafter
join the British Troops (& left
or may hereafter leave) their wives and families within this State, Have their
wives and families sent to General
John Burgoins [sic] Head Quarters, or some other Branch of the Ministerial Army, as soon as may be.”29 The Albany County Commissioners wrote to the governor of New York in July 1780 asking that “Women whose
Husbands are with the Enemy may be
sent to the Enemies Lines”
and again, in September 1779, requesting the removal of a Mrs
Tuttle whose husband, Stephen, "has gone off to the Enemy some time ago.”30
Once it was
decided that the women were to be expelled or permitted to leave, the terms for their departure were also
outlined. In 1780 in New York, all
women whose husbands were with the enemy were ordered to leave the colony for
British bases within twenty days. Patriot
committees drew up lists of the women to be removed and officials were
designated to inform the women of
their fate and of the consequences of ignoring the order.31 Women were also
subject to severe restrictions on what they were allowed to take when they
departed from their community. In
Vermont, Mrs Jeremiah French was escorted to the east side of Lake Champlain following her expulsion from
the state. The notice ordering her removal specified that she could take with her only “two feather beds and bed ding not
exceeding Eight Sheets, six Coverlids or
blankets, 5 plates, two platters, two basons, one Quart Cup, & knives &
forks if she has such things, her own
& her childrens Wearing apparril . . . [the rest of the] . . . moveables
belonging to sd. Estate . . . [were
to be sold to] Defray the charge of Transportation.”32 loyalist Alida Van Alstine was only permitted to take
with her when she fled for
New York City “bedding, 2
Chests, i Trunk, 2 bbls. flour, wearing apparel and some household furniture.”33
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1 Janice Potter McKinnon, While the Women Only Wept, (Montreal &
Kingston, 1993), p. 8.
2 “The husband also (by the old law) might give his wife
moderate correction. For, as he is to answer for her misbehaviour, the law
thought it reasonable to intrust him with this power of restraining her, by domestic
chastisement, in the same moderation that a man is allowed to correct
his servants or children; for whom the master or parent is also liable in some cases to answer. But this power
of correction was confined within
reasonable bounds; and the husband was prohibited to use any
violence to his wife, "[here translated:] other than as licitly and reasonably pertains
to the husband for the rule and correction of his wife." The civil law gave the husband
the same, or a larger,
authority over his wife; allowing
him, for some misdemesnors, "[here translated:] with flails and cudgels to beat the wife energetically;" for
others, only "[here translated:] to apply limited punishment." But,
with us, in the politer reign of Charles the second, this
power of correction began to be doubted: and a wife may now have security
of the peace against her husband; or, in return, a husband against his
wife. Yet the lower rank of people, who were always fond of the old common law, still
claim and exert their ancient privilege: and the courts of law will still permit
a husband to restrain a wife of her liberty, in case of any gross
misbehaviour.” Blackstone, “Commentaries . . .”
3 While the Women, at 6.
4 While the Women at 5.
5 By
comparison, a female camp follower in an 18th Century
British regiment was considered an integral part of the organization. Most
were gainfully employed as sutlers, nurses and laundresses, received financial
compensation for their contributions and often had their own lodgings.
6 While the Women at 7.
7 By
comparison, a female camp follower in an 18th Century
British regiment was considered an integral part of the organization. Most
were gainfully employed as sutlers, nurses and laundresses, received financial
compensation for their contributions and often had their own lodgings.
8 Sir William Blackstone, Commentaries on the Laws of England, Chapter XV,
Book I (1765-1769).
9 Dothe Stone Diary, October
22, 1783; October 24, 1783.
10 American Loyalist Claims, reels 99-100,
130.
11 Ibid, reels 99-100, 219.
12 If
a young woman did not marry, she was expected to live with her brother, or some
other married male relative, and help care for his family. The male
relative would assume the responsibility of caretaker and provider for the single woman.
13 A Dialogue Between a Southern Delegate and His
Spouse,
(New York, 1774).
14 Petition of Ann Novil;
Petition of Frances Child; Petition of Hannah
Tomlinson.
15 Alexander
McDonald, April 14, 1776.
16 Claim of Sarah Kast McGinnis, Audit Office 12,
vol. 27.
17 Philip Empy Petition, March
1, 1780.
18 While the Women at 56.
19 American Loyalist Claims, reels 43-47, 54, 51-62.
20 Ibid. On May 27, 1777 General Gates condemned the actions of
local militiamen who raided the McAlpin home. However, Gates did little to prevent
McAlpin’s property from being sold to support the American war effort.
21 Memoirs of William Smith, May 12, 1777.
22 Great Britain Audit Office Records, Volume 21,
reel number B-1159.
23 Ibid.
Eventually, Mary and her children fled to Canada and were reunited with Daniel.
24 Mary Munro to John Munro,
undated letter, HP, A 748.
25 While the Women at 75-76.
26 Mary Munro to John Munro,
undated letter, HP, 21,875.
27 While the Women at 83.
28 Minutes of the Commissioners, 21 September 1778.
29 Vermont Council of Safety, 12
September 1777,
30 Minutes of the Commissioners,
1778; September 15, 1779.
31 While the Women at 86.
32 Vermont Governor and Council,
28 May 1778.
33 While the Women at 86.
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